And now he's going on about how actually funding family planning is the federal government regulating the amount of children we can all have.
No, Chris. If the government wanted to regulate the amount of children we could have, birth control would be mandated, not simply available. The government was actually doing something truly democratic, and allowing even more freedom to choose whether or not a woman (or a couple) wanted kids, or if they wanted more kids, or if they wanted kids some time in the future but not right now. The choice part of family planning is what is missing from China's one child policy, and is what would be missing if this were actually a government program aimed at regulating who could have kids and when.